It may sound weird to others, it may sound sweet to everyone I know and who knows me, it may seem like a drama to unfamiliar people but let's face it. You buddies had this gift before, and is spreading. This gift-- the most precious of all, will be the most memorable. Some may have gone to another country or city, others have went to the farthest place you ever knew. But you're still in touch with them. I keep thanking myself I was born and I keep thanking God that He had given me this gift I will forever keep-- My ever-dearest Friends who, in turn, looks after me, cares for me, worries for me and helps me when I'm in need. We may have conflicts, troubles, arguments but it all fades after a day or two. But we continue to laugh and have fun. Remember the day when you first met your first friend? That's the kind of thing you can call as "friendship". I always tell my friends that friendship starts when you talk to each other- whether it's a common thing you both like, or a random but funny stuff. You start as acquaintances, but you get together fine. You both laugh and stare awkwardly at first but you get to shout and slap her in the arm when you both get to be so close. I remember when I was in Pizza Hut eating with my friends, some of us aren't really close like my other friends but I realized we all had the same thing thinking about. We all are having fun. As we eat and laugh and shout, we all did had a great time. That's the kind of thing I like. Frankly speaking, I choose my friends carefully, especially in boys. I know. Because boys these days are difficult to find especially in attitude. Luckily, for me, I had boy friends who are nice and can accept that I laugh weirdly- like a cabinet opening. HAHAHA. I continuously thank my friends for accepting me for who I am. I may have lost some friends because of conflicts, but they return to me safely, it may be awkward now, but we still have that spark that makes us friends. Sometimes I regret being mad at them because their a jerk, but I forget all about that stupid stuff and move on. We all make mistakes, I say, we're all people, and we're all not perfect. Everybody is unique in their own way. I say. Since I love my friends a lot, I don't want to lose them anymore. I want to hang out with them more than in the past.
Being a Senior is a hard obstacle, I experience hardships and stress. But thankfully, my friends are by my side. They help me when I need assignments, they help me when I'm in trouble. I don't ever forget to pay back everything they've done to me. So now, as I write this not-so long blog, I want to make people open their eyes and see the truth that friendship comes first before material stuff. It (material stuff) may fade gradually but friendship doesn't. Friendship might have troubles along the way but it ain't temporary. Face the reality that having a friend by your side is the most greatest gift you ever had. And don't say you regret having one, because if one day you're all alone, you will end up finding a friend and if you haven't found one, it's all your fault. So don't waste your time arguing with your friends and thinking their such jerks blocking in your way. They're just helping you to be a better person. They are our guides, our walls to lean on, our helpers. So don't forget to thank them. Because I will cry in front of them when I graduate and I'll say "Thank you for everything." I will miss my friends. I will miss them a lot. And if the times comes, I will meet them again and I'm glad they're still there to comfort, laugh with, have fun with, help with me whenever I want to. I don't take them for granted, I keep them as precious stones, I don't usually leave them when I'm finding new friends, I'm not actually finding new friends but I'm encountering on new ones. And I have been adding new ones lately. That's a good thing.
Don't ever take for granted your friends, because one day when you're too busy collecting stones, you might have lost a diamond because of your business finding new ones. Don't make yourself forget them. Because they don't usually forget you. That's it. Sorry if my statements were somehow long. But it's a lesson and a memory I'll keep.
No comments:
Post a Comment